Wise & Unwise Leader

A good executive simply is not a dictator. He listens to his employees. When the top people don't communicate with those under them, then of course they don't understand them or their problems. Leaders at any level should listen to those under them. Leaders are responsible to make the final decision, but being a leader does not mean that you have all the ideas and do all the thinking and all the consulting just within yourself

A good executive will listen to others.
A good secretary knows more about her boss' business than he does--and she should. He shouldn't have to be involved with every little thing, but someone needs to be. A good boss understands that his secretary is more familiar with the extent of the work and the urgency of it, and he will respect that and usually take his secretary's suggestions.

When it comes to plans and goals and motivation and other overall aspects of the work, the leaders are supposed to be good or they shouldn't be the leaders. But when it comes to practical matters, leaders ought to listen to their helpers, because their helpers probably know more about it than they do. A good leader will listen to his workers' suggestions, discuss, agree with them on a course of action, and then leave them alone to carry out the work, just checking now and then to see that they are producing and don't make any serious mistakes.

That's really the job of the executive--to keep things moving. He should let his people recommend the work, initiate the work, and by all means carry out the work.

Any smart executive is going to pump people power. He is not going to try to be the pump, or the pump handle, or the water, or the bucket. He's merely going to be the guiding hand that takes hold of the handle and pumps. All he does is keep the pump in motion. A good leader will try to keep everybody happy, because everybody has a right to be happy and to do the work he likes to do and wants to do if he's qualified.

If you're going to be an effective team, every member must work together with all the other members--not just one, not just a few, not even the majority, but all. You must learn to work together, listen to each other, counsel together, agree together, decide together, and then work it out together. Everyone has his job, everyone is needed, and all must work together.

Formula & a Small Truth

For our life’s 100% SUCCESS
If
A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z
is equal to
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26
Then,

Hard Work
H+A+R+D+W+O+R+K
8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 = 98%

Knowledge
K+N+O+W+L+E+D+G+E
11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 = 96%

Love
L+O+V+E
12+15+22+5 = 54%

Luck
L+U+C+K
12+21+3+11 = 47%

(most of us think this is the most important ??? )

Then what makes 100% ?

Is it Money ? .. NO ! ! !
M+O+N+E+Y
13+15+14+5+25 = 72%

Leadership ? .... NO ! ! !
L+E+A+D+E+R+S+H+I+P
12+5+1+4+5+18+19+9+16 = 89%

Every problem has a solution, only if we perhaps change our attitude.
To go to the top,
to that 100% ,

what we really need to go further... a bit more...


ATTITUDE
A+T+T+I+T+U+D+E
1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 = 100%


It is OUR ATTITUDE towards Life and Work that makes OUR Life 100% !
ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING
Change Your Attitude
And You Change Your Life !!!

आँसू मैं ना ढूँदना हूमें,

आँसू मैं ना ढूँदना हूमें,
दिल मैं हम बस जाएँगे,
तमन्ना हो अगर मिलने की,
तो बंद आँखों मैं नज़र आएँगे.
लम्हा लम्हा वक़्त गुजर जाएँगा,
चँद लम्हो मैं दामन छूट जाएगा,
आज वक़्त है दो बातें कर लो हमसे,
कल क्या पता कौन आपके ज़िंदगी मैं आ जाएगा.
पास आकर सभी दूर चले जाते हैं,
हम अकेले थे अकेले ही रेह जाते हैं,
दिल का दर्द किसे दिखाएँ,
मरहम लगाने वाले ही ज़ख़्म दे जाते हैं,
वक़्त तो हूमें भुला चुका है,
मुक़द्दर भी ना भुला दे,
दोस्ती दिल से हम इसीलिए नहीं करते,
क्यू के डरते हैं,कोई फिर से ना रुला दे,
ज़िंदगी मैं हमेशा नये लोग मिलेंगे,
कहीं ज्यादा तो कहीं कम मिलेंगे,
ऐतबार ज़रा सोच कर करना,
मुमकिन नही हैर जगह तुम्हे हम मिलेंगे.
खुशबू की तरह आपके पास बिखर जाएँगे,
धड़कन बन कर दिल मे उतर जाएँगे,
मेहसूस करने की कोशिश तो कीजिए,
दूर होते हो भी पास नजर आएँगे.........

कल हो ना हो

आज एक बार सबसे मुस्करा के बात करो
बिताये हुये पलों को साथ साथ याद करो
क्या पता कल चेहरे को मुस्कुराना
और दिमाग को पुराने पल याद हो ना हो

आज एक बार फ़िर पुरानी बातो मे खो जाओ
आज एक बार फ़िर पुरानी यादो मे डूब जाओ
क्या पता कल ये बाते
और ये यादें हो ना हो

आज एक बार मन्दिर हो आओ
पुजा कर के प्रसाद भी चढाओ
क्या पता कल के कलयुग मे
भगवान पर लोगों की श्रद्धा हो ना हो

बारीश मे आज खुब भीगो
झुम झुम के बचपन की तरह नाचो
क्या पता बीते हुये बचपन की तरह
कल ये बारीश भी हो ना हो

खूबसूरती क्या है?

मैने खुदा से पूछा कि खूबसूरती क्या है?
तो वो बोले

खूबसूरत है वो लब जिन पर दूसरों के लिए एक दुआ है

खूबसूरत है वो मुस्कान जो दूसरों की खुशी देख कर खिल जाए

खूबसूरत है वो दिल जो किसी के दुख मे शामिल हो जाए और किसी के प्यार केरंग मे रंग जाए

खूबसूरत है वो जज़बात जो दूसरो की भावनाओं को समझे

खूबसूरत है वो एहसास जिस मे प्यार की मिठास हो

खूबसूरत है वो बातें जिनमे शामिल हों दोस्ती और प्यार की किस्से कहानि